Yes, yet again. Bona Vita had to lie dormant for a few months (and by a few months, I mean a full year) while other priorities pushed themselves to the forefront. But we’re in the midst of a major overhaul and hope you’ll join us at the new location!
We’ve Moved!
May 18th, 2010Excuses, Excuses . . .
May 27th, 2009The blog has been a bit neglected lately. We’ve been remiss, slackers, cyber-bums, etc. But as usual, excuses are plentiful! Here are 10 reasons that the blog has been a bit slow:
10. We finally took the plunge and bought a Nikon D60 last weekend. For the first 24 hours we just stared at it. And the user manuals. It’s been at least as distracting as a new puppy.

9. With our newfound equipment, we decided to enter the professional arena. We signed up for an account on Shutterstock. Then we snapped the required ten pictures and sent them off, confident in our photographic prowess. 48 hours later all ten pictures were rejected. Not one, not five, but all ten. Perhaps we’ll keep our pictures within the confines of Bona Vita where we can rest comfortably, self-deceived about our abilities.
8. Elliot returned from college and then turned around and left on a mission trip to Nicaragua. The resulting laundry/unpacking/laundry/packing flurry was almost as distracting as the camera.
7. Memorial Day Weekend. Not as much a celebratory barbecue as a frantic pre-vacation three-day spring-cleaning plant-the-garden-in-an-afternoon event.
6. It’s the last week of school. Need I say more?
5. Mom’s slightly obsessive tendencies result in a desperate need to force her children to finish every single last page of every single textbook. The last week of school is both eventful and emotional as a result.

4. Seven National Piano Guild auditions, one SAT subject test in Latin, one freshman pre-registration, one senior piano recital, and standardized achievement testing all fell into the same fourteen-day period.
3. The family van is dying. After 220,000 miles, it’s making strange noises. Groaning, grunting, grinding. It doesn’t accelerate like it used to. It has also been attacked by rust, that malicious culprit that seems to take joy in destroying cars, especially those originating in Michigan. However, Mom and the mechanic are conspiring together to force one more year of miles out of the van.
2. Our first set of guests. We’ve been preparing our Michigan home for our first set of vacation renters.
1. Frantic planning and packing for summer vacation that solidified not a moment too soon. More on that coming soon.
So what are your excuses? Why does preparing for a relaxing summer take so much energy?
On this Memorial Day . . .
May 25th, 2009Take time to remember.

The American Revolution (1775-1783)
Franco-American Naval War (1798-1800)
The First Barbary War (1801-1805)
The War of 1812 (1812-1815)
The Mexican-American War (1846-1848)
The Civil War (1861-1865)
The Spanish-American War (April 25 – August 12, 1898)
World War I (1914-1918)
World War II (1941-1945)
Korean War (1950-1953)
Vietnam War (1959-1975)
Gulf War (1990-1991)
Battle of Mogadishu (1993)
Afghanistan War (2001- )
Iraq War (2003- )
We must never forget.
“Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.” – John 15:13
Saturday Inspiration
May 23rd, 2009“It is only through labor and painful effort, by grim energy and resolute courage, that we move on to better things.” – Theodore Roosevelt

Looking Ahead
May 19th, 2009It’s the season of graduations. Students stand on the precipice of a new beginning. This year, Madeline is one of them.
In the past, we’ve ordered graduation announcements from specialty stores. This year, we decided to try to print our own. First, we ordered blank two-fold graduation announcements. When they arrived, we admired the blank two-fold.

Then we drafted and scribbled and drafted and scribbled some more. Finally, the wording was just right. Our end result looked like this:

Then, it was time to format. I measured the card. I adjusted the size in Microsoft Word.

We decided navy lettering was better than black.

Then I pressed “Print”.

Then “Properties”.

Under the “Features” tab, I selected “Custom Size”. I renamed it and plugged in the dimensions. Then I clicked “Ok”.

Back on the “Features” tab, I selected my newly named size under “Scale to Paper Size”. I selected “Ok” again. On the main print page, I selected “Scale to paper size” and selected my newly named size again.

Then I clicked “Ok”. The end result was quite successful.

Saturday Inspiration
May 16th, 2009“It is an uneasy lot at best, to be what we call highly taught and yet not to enjoy: to be present at this great spectacle of life and never to be liberated from a small hungry shivering self–never to be fully possessed by the glory we behold, never to have our consciousness rapturously transformed into the vividness of a thought, the ardor of a passion, the energy of an action, but always to be scholarly and uninspired, ambitious and timid, scrupulous and dim-sighted.”
- George Eliot, Middlemarch
A New Twist
May 14th, 2009Last weekend, we prepared Chipotle Chile Pepper Chicken for some guests. We decided to try this new twist on our rice recipe to accompany the meal. It was quick, simple, and delicious. It would taste wonderful pared with any spicy or Mexican food.
Mexican Rice
2 cups white rice
1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil
8 chicken bouillon cubes
4 cups liquid – (2 cups chicken broth, 1/2 cup Chardonnay or equivalent white wine, 1 1/2 cup water)
1/2-1 Cup finely chopped onion
1 tbl garlic powder
5 Tablespoons thyme and oregano
1 Tablespoon fresh ground pepper
1 cup tomato sauce
Juice of 1/2 lemon
1 – 3 tsp of chile power (optional)

In a 2-3 quart pan with a well-fitting lid, brown the onion and rice in the olive oil for about 4 minutes or until it becomes transparent. Meanwhile, prepare the chicken broth, dissolving 8 bouillon cubes into 2 cups of water. Add the chicken broth to the rice. Add the water and Chardonnay.
You can adjust the proportions of broth, wine, and water to suit your taste as long as the total amount of liquid is 4 cups. Slowly add the liquid to the rice. For a spicier rice, add the chile power. Add tomato sauce, herbs, pepper, and lemon juice and gently mix. Cover the rice and cook over medium heat until the liquid is absorbed. This takes about 20 minutes.
Sunday Inspiration
May 10th, 2009“All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. That’s his.”
Happy Mother’s Day!
Franky’s Story, Part II
May 6th, 2009After Franky had recovered from his surgery, he began speech therapy. His speech therapists used a strictly audio-verbal method. This meant that they required children to develop speech and comprehension independent of cues like lip-reading or hand signals.
For some children, this works successfully. However, for Franky, it was a frustrating and fruitless process. After many long therapy sessions, he could still only elicit minimal sounds and had almost no comprehension.
We found a new therapist. She tried the same methods, still with few results. And so, one day, she suggested that we consider Cued Speech.
Cued Speech is a series of a hand shapes and placements that indicate phonemes, or sounds. Cued Speech, unlike American Sign Language, is not a language at all. Theoretically, the same hand shapes could be used for a variety of different languages.
Cued Speech is used in conjunction with language to help listeners comprehend language. Cued Speech provides listeners with verbal cues, helping them distinguish between phonemes.
Cued Speech has been successfully used with profoundly deaf children, as well as children with autism or other disabilities. Through Cued Speech, children without hearing have learned to speak and understand English and have been successfully mainstreamed. The same system is also used to help the speech of children using hearing aids or cochlear implants.
Although Franky already had hearing, his ability to distinguish between different sounds was not well-developed. Cued Speech would provide him with clear signals, helping him to distinguish between phonemes.
And so, we began our journey with Cued Speech. Franky’s speech therapist taught Mom how to correctly use the hand signals. She began to use it with Franky during his speech therapy sessions. Meanwhile, we began to use it at home.
Franky began to progress slowly, but steadily. Franky had a wonderful affinity for lip-reading; Cued Speech allowed him to use it. Slowly, Franky began to learn to speak and comprehend.
When a job change forced us to move a state away, we once again began the search for a speech therapist. We found one who was willing to support our use of Cued Speech, although she was not personally familiar with the system. Franky’s speech and comprehension continued to improve.
Because Cued Speech is based on phonemes, Mom was able to teach him phonics, alongside of other elementary subjects. Soon, his reading ability surpassed his speech, and he began to use his reading ability as an aid to his speech comprehension.
Now, six years after he was implanted, Franky is rapidly acquiring language and comprehension. The journey is not over. Franky’s progress can still be frustrating and daunting. However, the child we live with today is far far different than the Franky of two or four or six years ago. When we look back, it is encouraging to see how far Franky has come. We can’t wait to see what is in store for him, thanks to the miracles of cochlear implants and Cued Speech.


