Archive for August, 2008

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Sunday, August 31st, 2008

This summer my husband introduced our family to the game of golf. Our sons have taken up the sport with tremendous enthusiasm. Their focus and drive to learn and improve their golf game has been intriguing to observe. It demonstrates the incredible energy and stamina bottled up in young man’s life simply waiting to be harnessed.

I never really gave the sport of golf much thought. It was just another method to make contact with a ball. As this became our sons’ past time, I’ve had the opportunity to reflect on this activity and its effects on boys and young men.

First of all, it is definitely not for the faint of heart. It is a game that requires dedication. A golfer has to possess a willingness to work hard and persevere through trials and failures.  Golf involves continuous learning and a determination to acquire techniques essential to the game. It absolutely demands a commitment.

A tremendous benefit of the game of golf is the character training involved. It requires a great attitude and proper conduct on the course. I love watching as the boys learn and practice proper etiquette, showing respect for other players. Their integrity is tested as they learn not to erase strokes, to play the ball where it lies and to take penalties as required. As they replace divots, rake sand traps and let faster golfers play through, their concern for others becomes evident.

Golf has been a great  experience this summer. Our sons have learned to take their failures in stride and to handle their pride as they improve their game. They are acquiring the ability to conduct themselves as gentlemen even amidst frustration.

My husband has enjoyed hours of invaluable time on the course with our sons. He has given them lessons on golf as he continues to prepare them for the bigger game of life.

Not Politics as Usual . . .

Friday, August 29th, 2008

Thank you Senator McCain for a refreshing choice in a sometimes bleak political arena . . .

Go Sarah Palin.

“The king’s heart is in the hand of the Lord, like the rivers of water; He turns it wherever He wishes.”  -Proverbs 21:1

Our Life With Betsy

Thursday, August 28th, 2008

Last week my eldest daughter and I drove my son back to college. He is a sophomore this year. This simply means that I was not filled with anxiety as I anticipated leaving him at  school.  I will miss him and, of course, worry about him as any mother would. However, I know he was a great student  last year, he honored his Dad’s wishes even in his absence, and he enjoyed himself.

So we had a long, but enjoyable drive. We talked, listened to our favorite radio hosts, and my daughter read to us as I drove. She read from one of our family’s favorite collections, The Betsy-Tacy series by Maud Hart Lovelace.

Maud Hart Lovelace based this collection of books on her own lovely childhood in a small town in Minnesota. The time period is the early twentieth century. Betsy, the main character, is followed from the time she enters kindergarten (Betsy-Tacy) through her first year of marriage (Betsy’s Wedding).My children never tire of Betsy and her friends as we read over and over about their elementary years.  However, our favorite books in this series begin with Heaven To Betsy . Here we find Betsy entering high school. The remainder of the series sees her through high school graduation, into her young adult life and culminates as she is married just as World War I begins.

Lovelace’s characterizations are fabulous. Even her minor characters are three-dimensional. By the time Betsy enters high school in 1906 the reader is intimately familiar with her thoughts, attitudes, worries, hopes, and aspirations. Her family and friends will become your family and friends. You will enjoy Sunday dinners with her “crowd”, devouring her father’s famous onion sandwiches. You will spend evenings singing around her family’s piano. You will fret with Betsy as she studies for Latin exams and prepares for essay contests. You will love her discussions of the classics and even Wagner’s operas.

Lovelace captured the time period with delightful descriptions of the fashion, architecture, and culture that created Betsy Ray’s life. Betsy’s life may seem idyllic but I believe it is simply a picture of a beautiful family enjoying a simple life to the fullest.  The entire series is available through Amazon.

Kissed By The Sun

Monday, August 25th, 2008

Lime juice, limeade, key-lime pie, lemon-meringue pie, lemonade, lemon cookies, orange slushies, lime marinades, tangerine sauces – summer tables are brimming with delicious dishes and fresh citrus fruits.  You certainly can enjoy citrus fruits all year long. However, there is something delightfully refreshing about their taste and fragrance that particularly lends citrus fruits to summer menus.

I recently made lime cupcakes that were just the right ending to a very spicy and flavorful salmon dinner.  The cupcakes were light, brightly flavored and not too sweet. I was inspired by a Bon Appetit recipe from the September 2008 issue. I utilized the frosting recipe with only a few minor changes. I eliminated the lime zest as I was serving the cupcakes to adults and children and I have found that children do not usually prefer visible zest in their frosting. I sprinkled large, beautiful sugar crystals over the top of each cupcake, giving them a more festive air.

Lime Cupcakes

1 White cake mix

1 cup of water

1 5.9 ounce package lime flavored gelatin

1/2 cup (1cube) melted butter

4 large whole eggs

1/2 teaspoon almond flavoring

Line 24 muffin tins with paper liners. In a large mixing bowl combine the cake mix, water, gelatin butter and almond flavoring. Add the eggs one at a time mixing on medium high after each addition. Mix on medium speed for 2 minutes scraping the bowl occasionally. Fill the liners about 3/4 full for large cupcakes and 2/3 full for petite cupcakes. If you are making large cupcakes you will only have enough batter for about 18 cupcakes.

Bake in a 350 degree oven for about 18 minutes or until the top springs back when gently pressed down. Cool completely on a wire rack before frosting.

Lime Frosting

2 8 ounce packages cream cheese, softened

2 sticks ( 1 cup) butter, softened

4 cups powdered sugar

2 tablespoons lime juice

Large sugar crystals for garnish (India Tree makes lovely sugars)

Mix all of the ingredients in a large bowl and blend until  you achieve the correct consistency for frosting your cupcakes. You may have to add additional powdered sugar.

Remove the paper liners from the cupcakes (unless you utilize festive liners) and place the cupcakes on an attractive tray. Generously  spread the cupcakes with the frosting and sprinkle each with the sugar crystals.

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.”  – Galatians 5:22-23

Listen My Children

Wednesday, August 20th, 2008

The following is a list of my favorite illustrated books for young children.

  • The Biggest Bear
  • Floss
  • The Story of Ping
  • Goodnight Moon
  • Harold and the Purple Crayon
  • Prayer for a Child (the original is beautifully illustrated)
  • Caps For Sale
  • The Story of Babar
  • Crictor
  • If You Give A Mouse A Cookie
  • Mike Mulligan and the Steam Shovel
  • The Little Engine That Could
  • Blueberries For Sal
  • One Morning in Maine
  • Make Way for Ducklings
  • The Story of Ferdinand
  • The Important Book
  • Madeline
  • Madeline and the Bad Hat
  • Madeline and the Gypsies
  • Madeline’s Rescue
  • Madeline’s Christmas
  • Madeline In London
  • Where the Wild Things Are
  • Frederick
  • Doctor De Soto
  • Perfect the Pig
  • The Little House
  • Fritz and the Beautiful Horses
  • White Snow Bright Snow
  • The Dancing Bear
  • Stone Soup
  • The Runaway Bunny
  • Pat the Bunny
  • Farmer Duck
  • Ox-Cart Man
  • Curious George (complete series)
  • Harry (complete series)
  • Mittens (the original is the most beautifully illustrated)

Terrific authors:

  • Dr. Seuss (Cat in the Hat etc.)
  • Beatrix Potter ( The Tale of Peter Rabbit etc.)
  • Eric Carle (The Grouchy Ladybug etc.)
  • A.A. Milne (Winnie the Pooh)
  • Richard Scarry (Smokey the Fireman etc.)
  • Mercer Mayer ( All by Myself etc.)
  • James Herriot ( terrific children’s illustrated collection i.e. Moses the Kitten etc.)
  • Ingri D’Aulaire
  • Robert McCloskey

Some of my favorite Little Golden Books:

  • Play With Me
  • So Big
  • The Boy With the Drum
  • The Pokey Little Puppy
  • Tootle
  • My First Counting Book (I love Garth Williams’ illustrations)
  • The Saggy Baggy Elephant

Some of my favorite children’s poets:

  • Robert Louis Stevenson
  • Margaret Wise Brown
  • Rudyard Kipling

And of course:

  • Hans Christian Anderson Fairy Tales
  • Grimm’s Fairy Tales
  • Mother Goose Nursery Rhymes

“Children are made readers on the laps of their parents.” — Emilie Buchwald

Country Mouse – City Mouse

Monday, August 18th, 2008

Our family has lived in the country for almost 7 years now. We are isolated up here. I mean, we live in the middle of no where . . . and I love this life. We go days without seeing anyone (with the exception of my husband who works in the real world).  Even our neighbors live far enough away that an effort must be made to visit with them.

This private, country life has tremendous advantages. (My older children can tell you about the disadvantages.) We can garden in our pajamas, watch lovely wildlife from our back porch, hike in the wilderness while never leaving home and even view the Northern Lights from our front yard.

Our life changed abruptly last year. My husband took advantage of a professional opportunity in another state. So, one morning, we woke up and found ourselves living on the 18th fairway of a golf course in the middle of a neighborhood. Our home is in a small town in close proximity to a larger city.  This move could have been rife with culture shock but mercifully, we easily slid into our new way of life.

Living in or near a city has its advantages. The educational opportunities are tremendous. The medical facilities are terrific. I no longer find myself searching for activities to meet physical education requirements since golf and tennis are readily available. We do not have to travel an hour and a half to shop for a pair of jeans.

Surprisingly, I enjoy living in our new neighborhood. We do have the sense that we live in a fish bowl. But, for some reason I’m O.K. with this. I even still garden in my pajamas. I’m certain my children have a higher impact than others on the neighborhood simply because there are 9 of them, but my sons have learned about volume control. They have even learned to dress like golfers.

So, unlike the country mouse, I am enjoying our new life in the city. The transition has been eased by the fact that we continue to visit our home in the country. Because of the housing market we will probably enjoy our home in Northern Michigan for a long time.

We are winding down a two-week vacation at our up-north home. We have experienced all of our usual water sports, visited with friends, taken in the unbelievable natural beauty of Northern Michigan, and, of course, cooked and dined together.

My husband and sons ventured out on Lake Michigan and brought us back delicious fresh salmon. I  prepared it with a rub and accompanied by two delicious sauces. We served it to a few close friends one evening.

Spice Rub for Salmon

  • 4 tablespoons black pepper
  • 3 tablespoons Cayenne pepper
  • 2 tablespoons course kosher salt or sea salt
  • 1 tablespoon crushed basil
  • 1 tablespoon crushed thyme
  • 1 tablespoon crushed oregano
  • 2 tablespoons paprika
  • 3 tablespoons granulated garlic

Mix all of the ingredients together until combined. Store in an airtight container.

Balsamic Pinot Grigio Syrup

  • 1 bottle Pinot Grigio (or similar) wine
  • 1 1/2 cups sugar
  • 1/4 cup water
  • 3 tablespoons balsamic vinegar
  • 3 tablespoons butter

Combine sugar and water in a heavy saucepan. Bring to a boil and stir the sugar until it is melted and forms a thick syrup. It may begin to turn a golden color. Add the wine and boil and stir continually until it is reduced to about 1 cup. Add the vinegar and the butter. Serve warm. This sauce can be stored in the refrigerator and reheated prior to serving.

Unfortunately, I do not know who to credit for this delicious sauce. I put it together after reading several different recipes on the internet.

Lime Butter Sauce

This recipe is adapted from one found in the June 2006 issue of Gourmet Magazine.

  • 2 garlic cloves
  • 1 teaspoon of pepper
  • 1/2 cup of lime juice
  • 2 sticks butter, melted

In a blender mix the lime juice, pepper, and garlic until thoroughly combined. While the blender is running, add the melted butter in a slow steady stream. Blend until the mixture is emulsified. Serve cold.

Blackened Salmon

Place the salmon fillets in a little olive oil and then cover them with the rub. Let them sit in the rub in the refrigerator for at least one hour. Heat the grill to medium high. Place the salmon on the grill and cook for about 4 – 6 minutes per side.

Serve with Lime Butter Sauce and the Pinot Grigio Syrup.

The Children’s Hour Ends . . .

Wednesday, August 13th, 2008

Finally, 12th grade. . .

The senior year of high-school is an exciting, watershed moment in a young person’s life. Children are on the brink of a new era. I think it’s important that they enjoy this year and, yet, take it seriously. It can be a fun, memorable year and still be quite productive. Following is my daughter’s curriculum for her senior year.

Note: American Government can be a semester course. However, I will incorporate literature and writing assignments, thus making it a year-long course.

12th grade

  • Bible Study – How To Ruin Your Life By 40, Know What You Believe, Know Why You Believe, Mere Christianity
  • Advanced Biology: Human Anatomy – Apologia
  • AP Latin – Scholars Online
  • American Government – A Beka, with supplemental reading
  • Algebra II (Completed by December), Pre-Calculus – Teaching Textbooks
  • American Literature – See reading list
  • Piano – Private instruction through IPFW Community Arts
  • Writing – incorporated into literature and American Government

Reading List

  • The Scarlet Letter
  • Daisy Miller
  • Washington Square
  • The Great Gatsby
  • The Grapes of Wrath
  • A Connecticut Yankee in King Arthur’s Court
  • As I Lay Dying
  • Age of Innocence
  • The Four Loves
  • The Great Divorce
  • The Best Short Stories of O. Henry
  • The Chosen
  • The Day They Came to Arrest the Book
  • Moby Dick
  • Selected Poetry
  • Our Town
  • The Portable Poe
  • The View From Saturday
  • Walden and Civil Disobedience
  • Black Like Me
  • The Dry Divide
  • Eternity in Their Hearts
  • The Jungle
  • Up From Slavery
  • Anna Karenina
  • One Day in the Life of Ivan Denisovich
  • A Good Man is Hard To Find (Short Stories by Flannery O’Connor)
  • Their Eyes Were Watching God

“We are man and woman now, with sober work to do, for playtime is over, and we must give up frolicking. I’m sure you feel this. I see the change in you, and you’ll find it in me. I shall miss my boy, but I shall love the man as much, and admire him more, because he means to be what I hoped he would.” -Louisa May Alcott

The Children’s Hour III

Tuesday, August 12th, 2008

Now homeschooling your 10th grader. . .

In 10th grade I enroll my children in an online Western Literature class through  Scholars Online.  In many respects this class has become a rite-of-passage for my kids. They look forward to it with fear and trembling. In all actuality, it is not that bad. The class offers a rigorous overview of literature covering works from the Bible through Homer and landing finally in Dante. The professor is somewhat demanding but quite effective. Due to the reading list in this class, I usually ease off my reading requirements during this year. However, my 10th grader this year is a very strong reader so I did not feel the need to ease off his reading list.

If my reading lists seem overwhelming, remember that all of my plans for the school-year are dynamic. I alter them as needed. However, consider the great gift of time that children have at this stage of life. They probably will never again have this opportunity to read large amounts of literature.  Seize the moment.

Establishing and honing writing skills continues to be of utmost importance this year. I incorporate it into history, literature and test preparation classes.  You will also notice that my children have a formal language class at this level as well. They continue to work on language mechanics throughout high school.

Geometry is the main math class this year. However, I incorporate Algebra II into the year as well. I do not prefer my children to spend an entire year on geometry alone. I believe it weakens their algebra skills. This can be detrimental when they take college entrance exams in their junior year. I believe it is best to work on geometry and Algebra II at the same time. This obviously can take 2 years but the end result is the same. The timing is the only change.

10th Grade

  • Bible Study – God’s Will: God’s Best For Your Life, Bible Study Sampler, Why Pray, More Than A Carpenter
  • Chemistry, with lab - Apologia
  • Western Literature – Scholars Online
  • Geometry and Algebra II – Teaching Textbooks (separate texts)
  • Latin III – Scholars Online
  • Language – A Beka
  • World History, with prep for the A.P. test – A Beka supplemented with various sources and test preps
  • Piano – IPFW Community Arts Academy
  • Physical Education

Reading List

  • Oliver Twist
  • David Copperfield
  • Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde
  • Blandings Castle and other P.G. Wodehouse favorites
  • My Life and Hard Times
  • Jane Eyre
  • Out of the Silent Planet
  • Perelandra
  • That Hideous Strength
  • The Best of Father Brown
  • Surprised By Joy
  • Till We Have Faces
  • The Nine Tailors
  • Heart of Darkness
  • Kon Tiki

Western Literature reading list includes:

  • The Aeneid
  • Selection of Greek Plays
  • The Iliad
  • The Nibelungenlied
  • The Odyssey
  • The Portable Dante
  • The Saga of the Volsungs
  • The Song of Roland
  • The Story of King Arthur and His Knights
  • Edith Hamilton’s Mythology

“A classic is something that everybody wants to have read and nobody wants to read.” -  Mark Twain

She Made Some Tarts

Friday, August 8th, 2008

Fresh local fruit can be found in abundance this time of year. Alone, it adds a great touch to any meal. It’s  always a delicious, nutritious snack.

I enjoy the abundance of baking and cooking opportunities that fresh fruit affords. This week I was inspired by  a Bon Appetit recipe for a raspberry tart from the August 2007 issue. I did not follow their recipe per se, but it allowed me to rethink my own recipe for raspberry pie.

So, here is my final recipe for a delicious raspberry tart. The almonds added to the crumb topping enhanced the flavor substantially. You can vary the amount of sugar that you add to the raspberries.

Raspberry Tart

1 9-inch tart pan

1 pastry

7 cups fresh raspberries

3/4 – 1 cup of sugar

4 tablespoons flour

Crumb Topping

1 cup flour

1 cup brown sugar

4 tbsp butter

3/4 cup finely chopped almonds

Cut butter into small cubes. Mix sugar and flour. Cut butter into sugar and flour until mixture resembles coarse crumbs. (I suggest using a pastry cutter). Mix almonds into the crumb topping and set aside.

Press pastry into tart pan, and trim the edges of the pastry even with pan. Mix the raspberries, flour and sugar together. Fill the tart pastry with the fruit mixture and cover completely with the crumb mixture.

Place the tart on a baking sheet ( I cover the baking sheet with foil). Bake in a 375 degree oven for 25 minutes. Loosely cover the tart with foil to avoid over-browning and bake for an additional 25 minutes. Place on a rack to cool for 15 – 20 minutes prior to serving.

“Love is a fruit in season at all times, and within reach of every hand.” – Mother Teresa

The Children’s Hour II

Wednesday, August 6th, 2008

Now, for homeschooling your 9th grader…

This should be a transition year for students. It’s time for the big leagues. Grades and record-keeping are important; therefore, everyone needs to be diligent and disciplined. Yet, you still have time to work out the organization and maintainance of your records. By next year, this all should be set in stone. Efficient record-keeping will make your life so much easier when it is time to send off transcript material to colleges.

9th grade is a fun year as well. Your kids are becoming more independent. The material that they are studying can be meaty and rich. You will enjoy discussing their literature and history selections. I spend the year equipping my 9th grader with study and reading skills that will carry them through high-school and into college.

Start keeping track of your child’s reading material if you have not already. Simply create a file on your computer and have them update their reading list when they finish a book. Similarly, if your child plays an instrument keep track of the music that he or she performs.

Grade 9

  • Bible Study – Survey of the Old Testament (Christian Schools International)
  • Algebra I – Saxon
  • Biology (with lab) - Apologia
  • World Geography (1st semester) – A Beka
  • Ancient History (2nd semester)
  • Language – A Beka
  • Latin II – Alethea Academy (utilizing Wheelock)
  • Writing – Alethea Academy
  • World Literature – A Beka text accompanied by ancient literature selections (see reading list)
  • Piano – private instructor (IPFW Community Arts Academy)
  • Physical Education

Reading List

  • A Christmas Carol
  • The Best of Father Brown
  • The Strange Case of Dr. Jekly and Mr. Hyde
  • The Gammage Cup
  • Jane Eyre
  • Oliver Twist
  • Treasure Island
  • The Silver Branch
  • The Trumpeter of Krakow
  • The Yearling
  • Old Man and the Sea
  • Hound of Baskervilles
  • Great Expectations
  • Selected Poetry
  • Selected works from: Homer, Aeschylus, Sophocles, Plato, Aristotle, Herodotus, and Virgil

I plan my children’s school year with hope and “great expectations”. But, I always remain flexible. Life throws you twists and turns and you need to be able to roll with the challenges. Homeshooling  can be stressful and overwhelming at times. Try to keep it upbeat and enjoy spending this time with your children.

“Listen, my son, to your father’s instruction and do not forsake your mother’s teaching. They will be a garland to grace your head and a chain to adorn your neck.” – Proverbs 1:8-9