This summer my husband introduced our family to the game of golf. Our sons have taken up the sport with tremendous enthusiasm. Their focus and drive to learn and improve their golf game has been intriguing to observe. It demonstrates the incredible energy and stamina bottled up in young man’s life simply waiting to be harnessed.
I never really gave the sport of golf much thought. It was just another method to make contact with a ball. As this became our sons’ past time, I’ve had the opportunity to reflect on this activity and its effects on boys and young men.
First of all, it is definitely not for the faint of heart. It is a game that requires dedication. A golfer has to possess a willingness to work hard and persevere through trials and failures. Golf involves continuous learning and a determination to acquire techniques essential to the game. It absolutely demands a commitment.
A tremendous benefit of the game of golf is the character training involved. It requires a great attitude and proper conduct on the course. I love watching as the boys learn and practice proper etiquette, showing respect for other players. Their integrity is tested as they learn not to erase strokes, to play the ball where it lies and to take penalties as required. As they replace divots, rake sand traps and let faster golfers play through, their concern for others becomes evident.
Golf has been a great experience this summer. Our sons have learned to take their failures in stride and to handle their pride as they improve their game. They are acquiring the ability to conduct themselves as gentlemen even amidst frustration.
My husband has enjoyed hours of invaluable time on the course with our sons. He has given them lessons on golf as he continues to prepare them for the bigger game of life.
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I never gave the game of golf much thought, either, so it was fun learning a bit about it. I love how your husband is using golf to teach character as he “walks by the way.”